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Kinky much? (BDSM reference link)

April 16th, 2008 (05:33 pm)
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Ok, so, to begin with, mostly and foremost, it is nikki6's fault that I'm even taking a deeper look at BDSM. (Ok, so there are a whole lot of you people out there, with your irresistable fics! What can I do? :P)

Sure, I did "study" it before, when I started to write slash, since it goes a little hand in hand with gay culture (well, not so much, but I guess someone knows what I mean :S).

Found this... uhh... well, a site. :D There are terms. Some, for me, are very new, and I went over like the first five before posting this XD

Take a look here.

*shakes head at self and goes back to write a NORMAL sex scene for the role play game*

So, Nikki, check that one out (the page) ;)


EDIT: also, see the list... some useful things in there, too. If this doesn't get someone's imagination running, then nothing will :P

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Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 02:51 pm (UTC)

*snickers* I actually have a list of terms and toys used in BDSM myself for my job XD

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 03:06 pm (UTC)

Haa, a master-list you have there :D Lucky you. (I can guess where you're working, but then again, I would pick the easy answer :P)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 03:12 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 03:40 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 03:54 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 04:14 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 04:59 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:13 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:30 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:44 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:47 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:32 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:10 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:18 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:26 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:34 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:44 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 07:03 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 07:41 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 05:53 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 04:50 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:07 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:22 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:29 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:43 pm (UTC)

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Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:36 pm (UTC)
Jared 17 (standing desert bw)

Ohhhh....

I like the submissive ones! Haha, nice to know there are many of us out here, liking different things ;)

But, anyway, I totally rock towards the submissive side. Not pain that much, but slightly playful force and so on...

And some aspect of BDSM really fascinates me - I think it is the submissive thing, I guess. And let's not talk about the collar... *purrs* It's not the uses, but the symbolism. (not being a servant, but... you know, a loyal pet, kinda? haha, I have no idea what I'm trying to say here)

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Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:53 pm (UTC)

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Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:24 pm (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 08:21 pm (UTC)
jared -- bound -- minyafalas

Interesting links. I only scrolled down through about "C", but I recognized most of the terms. Scary, isn't it? *g*

When I saw the high comment count on this post, I assumed you had lots of people commenting rather than a few contributing to a long comment thread. Glanced over it. Little bit of revisionist history there. For the record, no one has been banned from 30stm_slash. If you ever want to hear the other side of the "LJ drama" feel free to email me - mlady_rebecca @ comcast . net.

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 08:26 pm (UTC)

lmao for the record, no one ever said they were ;)

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 08:59 pm (UTC)

Posted by: lauren (spidey)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 09:24 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:15 am (UTC)

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Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:13 am (UTC)

LMAO, that wouldn't have anything to do with Requiem, no/yes?

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 08:54 pm (UTC)

*sadface* I already had that site bookmarked *wonders who's going to be surprised* Right underneath this one

*has a sea of porntastic writing/research bookmarks*

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 09:47 pm (UTC)
shomo | lmfao

*GASPS* YOU HAVE KINK SITES BOOKMARKED OMG HOW COULD YOU?

:P

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 09:54 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 09:56 pm (UTC)

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 10:12 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:14 am (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 10:06 pm (UTC)
jared -- bound -- minyafalas

LOL. Yes, then I'm very well-learnt.

Edit: Ok, meant that as a reply to Kit, but the comment is not behaving. *shrugs*

Edited at 2008-04-16 10:09 pm (UTC)

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 11:23 pm (UTC)
jared chain

LOL. *likes reply anyway* *lix*

*pets* Well learnt is always good *G* Although...does tend to make me a little bit picky with kinky fics. :/

And now, if you don't mind...I'm just going to oogle your icon and its implications.... ♥

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:12 am (UTC)

Posted by: sigelfire (sigelfire)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 12:19 am (UTC)

OMG!!! This is a very interesting post especially for many of us ignorant who are getting into this BDSM thing and yet don't know much of it...and it's really difficult to get a good picture of it even at Internet (too much shitty places and too much taboo...) so, if we want to form an opinion in this regard, this is a very interesting, amusing and helpful info...
Thanx!!! ^^

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:09 am (UTC)

Glad you liked and found this interesting! Seems like I'm not the only newbie on this planet after all XD

Posted by: sigelfire (sigelfire)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 03:56 pm (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:45 am (UTC)
jared -- bound -- minyafalas

BDSM has always fascinated me, so I'm well read on the subject. I think the main appeal (for me) is the psychological one. The power play between individuals.

I'm not even sure if I want to know of this drama in particular.

Perfectly fine with me. Invitation is always open.

You can even email me if you want help with the kinky stuff. *g*

Edit: LOL. And there goes another misplaced comment. I give up.

Edited at 2008-04-17 06:47 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 07:24 am (UTC)

(comment reply via site still doens't work... :/ when I reply from email, though, it goes just where it belongs... annoying much?)

Anyway, yeah, I like the psychological aspect of BDSM too, though... not too extreme. Some things are just too sick even in my opinion. XD

And I think I don't have kinky stuff coming for, like... uhh... ever? Not in any of the fics that I've planned, at least. I won't say that is odd, though, because it isn't. :D

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 07:47 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:18 am (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:36 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:11 am (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:31 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:34 am (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:57 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 10:02 am (UTC)

Posted by: I know a lil 'bout a lot of things, just enough... (letosghanima)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:05 am (UTC)
Crowley_KnightOfCups01

(*lol*) I'd so like to high-five you right now, you know?

[ETA] Wait. Weird stuff is happening in this thread...

I was replying to this: "I'm not even sure if I want to know of this drama in particular. I am sure I will agree with both sides, and then just pat you in the back and walk off muttering that you're all silly adults :p (And while doing that, I'm not trying to be mean to anyone, but just... you know... make a statement? ^^)"

Edited at 2008-04-17 08:08 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:23 am (UTC)

I have NO idea why the thread does this - in other words, if you don't post a reply comment via your email, it will go to the end of the whole post!

I am beginning to think it in is the layout.... *sniffs* Damn, and I actually liked this one. *shake head*

Posted by: I know a lil 'bout a lot of things, just enough... (letosghanima)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:18 am (UTC)
sl08_lamp

I actually saw this post before anyone commented here. The subject certainly talks to people's imagination, huh? I used to follow a BDSM RP with Jared ages ago. (Do I still have the link? Yes, I do! Here it is: http://www.journalfen.net/userinfo.bml?user=jared_leto) I thought it was dynamite! Quite addictive... It's a whole different world though. I think people can use more than just a dictionary to get to know more about it.

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:21 am (UTC)

It's all about imagination, knowing what you're writing, knowing your characters... in other words, BDSM is harder to capture than a normal relationship.

Well, that's just me and my thoughts...

TSK tsk, and now you reply when everyone else has done so? :P well, better late than never ^^

Posted by: I know a lil 'bout a lot of things, just enough... (letosghanima)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:31 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:05 am (UTC)

Posted by: I know a lil 'bout a lot of things, just enough... (letosghanima)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:32 am (UTC)
Hero_BrokenSword05

Testing, testing! One, two, three...

It's behaving now, doesn't it?

[ETA] Damn! It isn't (*lol*).

Edited at 2008-04-17 08:32 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:07 am (UTC)

It isn't working, no.

Fucked up page.
(Well, this is also a sign of one thing: I usually don't get this many people to comment!)

Hmm... how about to try and threat the certain comments, and then try and post? *tries*

Nope, doesn't work. Bummer.

Posted by: Myr (myr_juhl)
Posted at: April 18th, 2008 08:44 am (UTC)
Gerard Butler arm porn

Wow. This was a passionate post from everybody.I enjoyed reading all the responses. I'm seriously not a BDSM person but stuff sneaks in here and there anyway, and I'm usually oblivious when that happens *g*

I'll have a look at the list once in a while and be amazed by me having written stuff belonging to the list here and there.

*hugs*

Myr

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 18th, 2008 10:09 am (UTC)

Haha, so you're just as guilty as everyone else - you just don't know it yet ;) BDSM is out there, lurking, waiting, ready to jump us... (something something... *ignores herself*)

:P

Yeah, people have been responding - to me and to each other. Good times, I hope. Now I only have to decide what to do with the damn layout that doesn't approve of this many replies, seemingly *sighs and shakes head*

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