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Kinky much? (BDSM reference link)

April 16th, 2008 (05:33 pm)
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Ok, so, to begin with, mostly and foremost, it is nikki6's fault that I'm even taking a deeper look at BDSM. (Ok, so there are a whole lot of you people out there, with your irresistable fics! What can I do? :P)

Sure, I did "study" it before, when I started to write slash, since it goes a little hand in hand with gay culture (well, not so much, but I guess someone knows what I mean :S).

Found this... uhh... well, a site. :D There are terms. Some, for me, are very new, and I went over like the first five before posting this XD

Take a look here.

*shakes head at self and goes back to write a NORMAL sex scene for the role play game*

So, Nikki, check that one out (the page) ;)


EDIT: also, see the list... some useful things in there, too. If this doesn't get someone's imagination running, then nothing will :P

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Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 02:51 pm (UTC)

*snickers* I actually have a list of terms and toys used in BDSM myself for my job XD

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 03:06 pm (UTC)

Haa, a master-list you have there :D Lucky you. (I can guess where you're working, but then again, I would pick the easy answer :P)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 03:12 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 03:40 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 03:54 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 04:14 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 04:59 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:13 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:30 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:44 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:47 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:32 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:10 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:18 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:26 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:34 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:44 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 07:03 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 07:41 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 05:53 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 04:50 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:07 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:22 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:29 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:43 pm (UTC)

Posted by: luzestrellera (luzestrellera)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:28 pm (UTC)
dirty thoughts

LOL
i saw that page before while doing some research in order to improve my stuff haha
it's interesting :)
and of course, my imagination run a lot after that...as if my imagination needed some more material to keep running...LOL
i wasn't so much into bdsm , and i'm still not but some things atracts me way too much haha
looking at all these things i dicovered that i love to be dominant ....and i like to have a man tied down to play :P
the "pain" thing never atracted me too much (even if a little pain could be hot :P) but i'm curious enough to look and read about all kind of practice hah
btw...couldn't avoid reding some comments...LOL...curious girl here :P
i'll never get that kind of need to judge other's work or other's tastes...i mena...if i like aomething, i take it and if i don't, i leave it and i don't even take a second to let others know that i didn't like it...
and i apreciatte sex in a story too much
i basically read slash because i like reading smut and sex scenes...LOL
but you managaed to have me reading a story without that element...haha
so, i read stuff if authors that i like, with or without sex, but...if i have to choose, bring the hot stuff on!!
and after all, it's about fun...i guess that's the point that most people miss when they begin with some pointless rantings...if you or someone else is having fun with it...what's so wrong?
let's people play their games :)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:36 pm (UTC)
Jared 17 (standing desert bw)

Ohhhh....

I like the submissive ones! Haha, nice to know there are many of us out here, liking different things ;)

But, anyway, I totally rock towards the submissive side. Not pain that much, but slightly playful force and so on...

And some aspect of BDSM really fascinates me - I think it is the submissive thing, I guess. And let's not talk about the collar... *purrs* It's not the uses, but the symbolism. (not being a servant, but... you know, a loyal pet, kinda? haha, I have no idea what I'm trying to say here)

Posted by: luzestrellera (luzestrellera)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:49 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 05:53 pm (UTC)

Posted by: luzestrellera (luzestrellera)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:20 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 06:24 pm (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 08:21 pm (UTC)
jared -- bound -- minyafalas

Interesting links. I only scrolled down through about "C", but I recognized most of the terms. Scary, isn't it? *g*

When I saw the high comment count on this post, I assumed you had lots of people commenting rather than a few contributing to a long comment thread. Glanced over it. Little bit of revisionist history there. For the record, no one has been banned from 30stm_slash. If you ever want to hear the other side of the "LJ drama" feel free to email me - mlady_rebecca @ comcast . net.

Posted by: Kara (ex_karasaur)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 08:26 pm (UTC)

lmao for the record, no one ever said they were ;)

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 08:59 pm (UTC)

Posted by: lauren (spidey)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 09:24 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:15 am (UTC)

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Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:13 am (UTC)

LMAO, that wouldn't have anything to do with Requiem, no/yes?

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 08:54 pm (UTC)

*sadface* I already had that site bookmarked *wonders who's going to be surprised* Right underneath this one

*has a sea of porntastic writing/research bookmarks*

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 09:47 pm (UTC)
shomo | lmfao

*GASPS* YOU HAVE KINK SITES BOOKMARKED OMG HOW COULD YOU?

:P

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 09:54 pm (UTC)

Posted by: The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom. (seasidh)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 09:56 pm (UTC)

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 10:12 pm (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:14 am (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 10:06 pm (UTC)
jared -- bound -- minyafalas

LOL. Yes, then I'm very well-learnt.

Edit: Ok, meant that as a reply to Kit, but the comment is not behaving. *shrugs*

Edited at 2008-04-16 10:09 pm (UTC)

Posted by: kit84 (kit84)
Posted at: April 16th, 2008 11:23 pm (UTC)
jared chain

LOL. *likes reply anyway* *lix*

*pets* Well learnt is always good *G* Although...does tend to make me a little bit picky with kinky fics. :/

And now, if you don't mind...I'm just going to oogle your icon and its implications.... ♥

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:12 am (UTC)

Posted by: sigelfire (sigelfire)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 12:19 am (UTC)

OMG!!! This is a very interesting post especially for many of us ignorant who are getting into this BDSM thing and yet don't know much of it...and it's really difficult to get a good picture of it even at Internet (too much shitty places and too much taboo...) so, if we want to form an opinion in this regard, this is a very interesting, amusing and helpful info...
Thanx!!! ^^

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:09 am (UTC)

Glad you liked and found this interesting! Seems like I'm not the only newbie on this planet after all XD

Posted by: sigelfire (sigelfire)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 03:56 pm (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 06:45 am (UTC)
jared -- bound -- minyafalas

BDSM has always fascinated me, so I'm well read on the subject. I think the main appeal (for me) is the psychological one. The power play between individuals.

I'm not even sure if I want to know of this drama in particular.

Perfectly fine with me. Invitation is always open.

You can even email me if you want help with the kinky stuff. *g*

Edit: LOL. And there goes another misplaced comment. I give up.

Edited at 2008-04-17 06:47 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 07:24 am (UTC)

(comment reply via site still doens't work... :/ when I reply from email, though, it goes just where it belongs... annoying much?)

Anyway, yeah, I like the psychological aspect of BDSM too, though... not too extreme. Some things are just too sick even in my opinion. XD

And I think I don't have kinky stuff coming for, like... uhh... ever? Not in any of the fics that I've planned, at least. I won't say that is odd, though, because it isn't. :D

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 07:47 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:18 am (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:36 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:11 am (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:31 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:34 am (UTC)

Posted by: mlady_rebecca (mlady_rebecca)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:57 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 10:02 am (UTC)

Posted by: I know a lil 'bout a lot of things, just enough... (letosghanima)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:05 am (UTC)
Crowley_KnightOfCups01

(*lol*) I'd so like to high-five you right now, you know?

[ETA] Wait. Weird stuff is happening in this thread...

I was replying to this: "I'm not even sure if I want to know of this drama in particular. I am sure I will agree with both sides, and then just pat you in the back and walk off muttering that you're all silly adults :p (And while doing that, I'm not trying to be mean to anyone, but just... you know... make a statement? ^^)"

Edited at 2008-04-17 08:08 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:23 am (UTC)

I have NO idea why the thread does this - in other words, if you don't post a reply comment via your email, it will go to the end of the whole post!

I am beginning to think it in is the layout.... *sniffs* Damn, and I actually liked this one. *shake head*

Posted by: I know a lil 'bout a lot of things, just enough... (letosghanima)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:18 am (UTC)
sl08_lamp

I actually saw this post before anyone commented here. The subject certainly talks to people's imagination, huh? I used to follow a BDSM RP with Jared ages ago. (Do I still have the link? Yes, I do! Here it is: http://www.journalfen.net/userinfo.bml?user=jared_leto) I thought it was dynamite! Quite addictive... It's a whole different world though. I think people can use more than just a dictionary to get to know more about it.

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:21 am (UTC)

It's all about imagination, knowing what you're writing, knowing your characters... in other words, BDSM is harder to capture than a normal relationship.

Well, that's just me and my thoughts...

TSK tsk, and now you reply when everyone else has done so? :P well, better late than never ^^

Posted by: I know a lil 'bout a lot of things, just enough... (letosghanima)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:31 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:05 am (UTC)

Posted by: I know a lil 'bout a lot of things, just enough... (letosghanima)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 08:32 am (UTC)
Hero_BrokenSword05

Testing, testing! One, two, three...

It's behaving now, doesn't it?

[ETA] Damn! It isn't (*lol*).

Edited at 2008-04-17 08:32 am (UTC)

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 17th, 2008 09:07 am (UTC)

It isn't working, no.

Fucked up page.
(Well, this is also a sign of one thing: I usually don't get this many people to comment!)

Hmm... how about to try and threat the certain comments, and then try and post? *tries*

Nope, doesn't work. Bummer.

Posted by: Myr (myr_juhl)
Posted at: April 18th, 2008 08:44 am (UTC)
Gerard Butler arm porn

Wow. This was a passionate post from everybody.I enjoyed reading all the responses. I'm seriously not a BDSM person but stuff sneaks in here and there anyway, and I'm usually oblivious when that happens *g*

I'll have a look at the list once in a while and be amazed by me having written stuff belonging to the list here and there.

*hugs*

Myr

Posted by: Del Rion (del_rion)
Posted at: April 18th, 2008 10:09 am (UTC)

Haha, so you're just as guilty as everyone else - you just don't know it yet ;) BDSM is out there, lurking, waiting, ready to jump us... (something something... *ignores herself*)

:P

Yeah, people have been responding - to me and to each other. Good times, I hope. Now I only have to decide what to do with the damn layout that doesn't approve of this many replies, seemingly *sighs and shakes head*

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